I, Matter! Coaching & Consulting

"You can't be what you can't see." ~Marian Wright Edelman

women's empowerment coach
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"Be patient when becoming someone you haven't been before."

-Tanya Markul

Do you believe you matter?

Are you living life as if you matter?

we believe every woman has within her everything she needs to thrive.

About Alexis

I am many things, but fitting into a box is not one of then.  For years I resisted this aspect of my personality in hopes of ‘blending in’ or being liked. Fuck that shit!  I am who I am! 

Most people who encounter me fall into 1 of 2 camps – “I love Alexis and cannot wait until our next encounter” or “Yeah, she’s too much and not for me.” 

 It took a while to realize that it’s ok if not everyone likes you.

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“I am not for everyone, and that’s ok! You shouldn’t be either.”
Alexis Mobley
I, Matter! Coaching & Consulting

"Our biggest limit is not in what we want and cannot do; it is what we have never considered that we can do."

-Richard Bandler

When you think of a coach, I do not spring to mind!  I am part hype woman, part drill sergeant, but always on team you! We will laugh, maybe even raise our voices, but ultimately, we will find common ground and partnered solutions. 

And believe me, we will work!  However, our sessions mean to offer spaciousness to show up as yourself.  And sometimes, this means we won’t focus on goals, objectives, or a “solution.”

"I am that bougie hype woman you didn't know you needed!"

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Testimonials

I knew I was stuck and needed help so I reached out to Alexis and we started the journey. I didn't realize how resistant I was to the entire process until I 'saw myself' on the video. Something shifted inside and realization dawned...this process will help you gain insight into 'self'. After that the flood gates opened and I embraced our sessions. Alexis was amazing in her patience, insight with the probing questions and observations. I will forever have the take away...'my stuff, your stuff' because I now know the difference.

Senior Technology Executive

Chicago

Who wants to blow up their life in the best way possible? If that’s you, then work with Alexis. Alexis has a no-nonsense, comb-your-hair, that’s-an-excuse kind of style that helps you find your whole life. She is an active listener that makes you feel seen and heard. She listens so well that she will tell you the things you didn’t actually say but you were for sure thinking it while you were talking.

Working with her has given me a framework for success, my way. She has empowered me with so many simple tools to get the life that aligns with my true self. I highly recommend Alexis if you truly want to become fulfilled and super clear about what you want.

Senior Federal Chemist

Miami

As a neurodivergent professional, I,Matter Coaching helped me navigate my personal and professional goals, and taught me how both worlds comingle. Through resources and coping mechanisms, I learned how to prioritize and recognize what I want and need to maintain my personal and professional wellbeing.

Senior Data Scientist, Global Travel Firm

Chicago

Alexis helps you to see that your wholeness is always inside of you. You can find your answers within. She encourages you to learn to trust yourself and strengthen your confidence.

Senior Human Resources Professional

NYC

Alexis has a very approachable and encouraging personality. So much so that this allowed me to go deeper and share more during our first session!

Associate Director

NYC

Alexis is a confident and fully present coach. Putting all of my options on the table and talking through my feelings about each option was incredibly helpful.

Technology Program Manager

Chicago

Alexis supported my process in creating a plan that worked for me to achieve my goals. In addition, her patient, compassionate, and insightful questions helped me gain clarity and focus, which was my desire at the start of the session.

Life Coach

NYC